Divorce Turned Your Life Upside Down—Now You Feel Stuck and Full of Self-Doubt
One moment, you’re determined to move forward. The next, you’re overwhelmed by self-doubt, fear, and second-guessing every decision. What if I make the wrong choice? What if I never feel whole again?
It’s not just the end of your marriage that’s holding you back—it’s the fear of what comes next.
Are you ready to quiet the noise, rebuild confidence, and take the first steps toward a future that feels like yours again?
Your Confidence Took a Hit—Now Fear and Doubt Are Running the Show
- You keep questioning every decision, afraid of making another mistake.
- The voice in your head whispers, “You’re not enough,” and fighting it feels exhausting.
- Fear keeps you playing small, even though deep down, you know you're meant for more.
- You long for a fresh start, but the uncertainty keeps pulling you back.
Without the right guidance, it’s easy to stay trapped in a cycle of self-doubt and fear. But you don’t have to navigate this alone—there’s a way forward.
Introducing…
Get Out of Your Own Way
A Step-by-Step Course to Quiet Fear, Build Confidence, and Move Forward After Divorce
Right now, fear, self-doubt, and overthinking are keeping you stuck. One moment, you're ready for a fresh start—the next, fear creeps in, telling you you’re not ready and questioning your ability to move on.
You don’t have to stay trapped in this cycle.
This is your roadmap to breaking free from emotional blocks, rebuilding confidence, and stepping into this next chapter with clarity.
What Life Looks Like When You Do the Inner Work:
- Grounded & Clear – No more spinning in fear and self-doubt.
- Confident in Your Decisions – Trusting yourself again.
- Free from Overthinking – Taking action without second-guessing.
- Excited About Your Future – With a clear vision of what’s next.
This isn’t just possible—it’s who you are without the noise of your mind.
With a proven framework of guided lessons, practical tools, and deep self-reflection, you’ll gain the confidence and clarity to move forward on your own terms—without fear holding you back.
SEE WHAT YOU’LL LEARNWhat You'll Learn
module 1
Understanding What's Holding You Back
Your inner critic may be louder than ever right now, feeding self-doubt and making you question every decision. In this module, you’ll learn how to recognize and quiet self-sabotaging thoughts, understand the impact of fear on your healing journey, and begin to reframe your divorce story in a way that empowers you rather than keeps you stuck. Most importantly, you’ll practice self-compassion, because healing starts when you stop blaming yourself and start treating yourself with kindness.
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MODULE 2
Shifting Your Mindset for Growth
You might not realize it yet, but the beliefs you hold about yourself and your future are shaping every decision you make. In this module, you’ll uncover the limiting beliefs that are keeping you small and replace them with a mindset that supports your growth. You’ll discover why you self-sabotage, learn how to take action to build true confidence, and shift into a growth-oriented mindset that allows you to see possibilities instead of roadblocks. This is where real transformation begins—when you stop seeing yourself as broken and start seeing yourself as capable of something new.
MODULE 3
Taking Control of Your Emotional Landscape
Divorce is an emotional storm, and it’s easy to feel like you’re drowning in waves of grief, anger, or uncertainty. But emotions don’t have to control you—you can learn how to navigate them with strength and clarity. This module will help you ground yourself in the present moment, recognize and manage emotional triggers, and build the resilience you need to recover from setbacks. You’ll also focus on self-care that actually nourishes you, helping you move through pain instead of avoiding it. When you gain control over your emotional landscape, you gain control over your future.
MODULE 4
Planting Seeds for Change
The hardest part of any transition isn’t starting over—it’s the space in between. That uncertain, messy middle where you’re no longer who you were, but not yet who you’re becoming. In this final module, you’ll learn how to navigate the in-between with grace, redefine success on your own terms, and set gentle but firm boundaries that support your growth. You’ll also focus on practicing self-trust, because trusting yourself again is the key to confidently stepping into your next chapter. This is where you start shaping the future you want, one small step at a time.
Let's really fast-track your success!
Who doesn't love a great bonus?
- Self-Talk Reframe Cheat Sheet. Break the cycle of self-doubt with this quick guide to flip negative thoughts into empowering beliefs—so you can start showing up with confidence, not fear.
- Downloadable Affirmation & Reflection Cards. Powerful daily affirmations and prompts to keep you motivated, grounded, and aligned with your healing journey. Print them, journal with them, or use them as your personal pep talk.
- Fear Ladder Worksheet. Overcome fear one step at a time! This simple tool helps you break down what’s holding you back so you can take action without feeling overwhelmed.
Plus! Mystery Bonus on Completion!
Finish the course questionnaire and unlock a special surprise gift—because every step forward deserves to be celebrated!
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WORKBOOK
This workbook isn’t just about reflection—it’s about taking action. With guided exercises and prompts, you’ll gain clarity, shift unhelpful patterns, and start moving forward with confidence. Each section builds on the last, giving you a structured path through healing and growth.
VIDEO TUTORIALS
The course is structured into four powerful modules, each containing four targeted lessons to help you navigate self-doubt, fear, and emotional roadblocks. These short, focused videos break things down into practical, easy-to-follow steps, allowing you to process at your own pace while making real progress toward healing and confidence.
FACEBOOK COMMUNITY
Inside the private community for course participants, you’ll connect with like-minded women who truly get it—offering encouragement, insights, and support as you apply what you’re learning. It’s a space to connect with the course leader, feel understood, celebrate progress, and keep moving forward.
An Affordable Path to Confidence
If you were to explore these same concepts and tools in therapy, it could cost over $800 to gain the same level of insight, reflection, and guidance. As a psychotherapist, I know how much ground can be covered in just one hour of therapy.
This course gives you lifetime access to the same foundational tools at a fraction of the cost.
WHAT ABOUT A GUARANTEE?
IÂ promise that if you follow my guidance and practice the tools in the course, you will experience a big shift in how you see yourself and what you believe you can create for your life.
But if you realize this course isn' what you expected, I will offer you a full refund within 14 days. To receive the refund, I ask that you hop on a quick call with me to provide your feedback on the course.
Take the full two weeks to explore the materials and experience Get Out of Your Own Way and then make a decision using the information you have, rather than the information you don’t.
And just who will be teaching you how to trust in yourself and stop getting in your own way?
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Me! Claire De Boer
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Not only have I been where you are, I am also a licensed Psychotherapist who has been supporting women through their healing journeys for over a decade.
When I went through my divorce, I felt full of grief, overwhelmed with self doubt and my confidence was at an all time low.
By uncovering my beliefs, quieting my inner critic, and rebuilding trust in myself, I found the courage to take the steps I needed to stand in my own worthiness.Â
I'm here to guide you out of those weeds too.
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Claire is one of the nicest humans I have ever met in my life! Right from my very first session with her I felt so at ease and comfortable.
She has helped me so much and I look forward to seeing her every session as I always walk away in such a great headspace! ❤️
MACKENZIE J, CLIENT
Claire is an amazing coach. Her understanding of people and human behaviour is amazing. Super understanding and empathetic. But also great at helping me progress and move forward and make the necessary changes I need to make. She gives me homework and I ensure I complete it so I can grow and change.
KAM B, CLIENT
If there was an option for more stars I would give it.
Grateful to have found Claire and her work!
Liz H, Client
Claire is really amazing and easy to talk to. I highly recommend her sessions.
AK, Client
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You Have Two Choices…
Stay Stuck or Follow a Clear Path Forward
You could try to figure this out alone—sorting through the doubts, fears, and endless “what-ifs” while hoping things get better on their own.
Or… you can take the next step with a guide who’s been there and knows the way forward.
With the right plan and support, you don’t have to waste years second-guessing yourself. Instead, you can rebuild your confidence, trust yourself again, and step into this next chapter with clarity.
The choice is yours.
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Still Got Questions? I Got Answers!Â
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Do I Have To Be Divorced?
Will this course work for me if I’ve been divorced for years?
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Is this course inclusive of people of all genders and identities?
Does this course include advice about handling divorce-related legal or financial issues?
IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER
The content and support provided by Claire De Boer Empower Her Midlife Inc., in this course is for informational and educational purposes only. Claire de Boer and Empower Her Midlife Inc. are not acting in the capacity of licensed mental health providers. Any advice, strategies, or content shared should not be interpreted as psychological or therapeutic treatment. If you are seeking mental health support or therapy, we encourage you to consult with a licensed mental health professional.
